Sorry, I originally read this thread when I was away from my computer so couldn't point to specifics and then promptly forgot about it.
Basically, you just need to install Rome VV (or Rome Gold) and patch to either 2.2 or 2.31 as normal. Then, install Lofmod and TCM as normal. Copy/paste all of TCM's files to the appropriate Lofmod folder (except for the history folder),
but do not overwrite. Then, modify the following files manually (in the appropriate mod folder, of course):
- common\cultures.txt - TCM adds a whole bunch of partial_ cultures to each culture group, and these are necessary for my cultural absorption events to fire correctly, but it looks like Lofmod does a bit to that as well. Just use Lofmod's file.
- common\defines.txt - if you're using the 2.2 patch, then just use Lofmod's file and change _DIPDEF_MAX_ANNEX_SIZE_ to 6 rather than 1. If you're using 2.31, just use TCM's file and change _TRDEF_CIV_SPREAD_FROM_TRADE_ to 0.10 rather than 0.05.
- common\event_modifiers.txt - both mods add a few event modifiers, so just use Lofmod's file with the last three modifiers from TCM's file added to the end.
- common\officeterms.txt - use TCM's file with the entries for tribal_monarchy and tribal_republic added from Lofmod's file.
- common\omens.txt - just use Lofmod's file.
- common\static_modifiers.txt - there are lots of differences here, and the 2.31 patch adds a few entries as well. Instead of going through every single difference and trying to figure which one is better, just use TCM's file if you are running 2.31 or Lofmod's if you're using 2.2.
- common\titles.txt - I can't even remember what I did with titles.txt, just use Lofmod's file.
- events\colony.txt - Use Lofmod's file.
- events\flavor.txt - Use Lofmod's file.
- gfx\*.* - Use Lofmod's files.
- interface\*.* - Use Lofmod's files.
That should be it.