Wiz, something I've noticed that bugs me is matrilineal bethrothals. While I accept that when both parties come into adulthood the male side will no longer agree to the matri marriage (thats fine I accept that circumstances may have changed/they have become higher in the line of sucession etc), why should I have to break the betrothal and suffer the penalty by not agreeing to their requests for normal marriage that are continually sent until I do break it?
Would it be possible for you to make an event where upon reaching marriageable age I would get a message saying that they no longer feel a matrilineal marriage is appropriate, and give me the option to either marry normally or decline, with my opinion of them decreasing.
Otherwise it seems unfair that I have to suffer a relations penalty with them when it is they who are actually backing out of the agreement.
Cheers!
Not something I can do. You'll have to take this to Paradox.