What does any of this have to do with my Hong Kong example as an illustration of two events with the same result producing different perceptual experiences for the same person, while the original post I responded to was saying that willfully not reloading is equivalent to not being able to reload? There's a 1:1 relation between reloading and eating dinner, to the point where you can literally just replace the words with no loss of or change in the information conveyed.
Saying that I could have found a way to get dinner if I really wanted it is like saying that if I really wanted to reload, I could have hacked the Steam servers to alter my savegame. Come on.
You do not have to hack the steam servers. There was a legitimate and legal way to modify saved games that exploited how the games were saved. No modifications to steam or EU4 were necessary (which would have been illegal).
I am saying your perception of ironman is not completely correct (admittedly this is subjectively saying your opinion is incorrect), as it is an incomplete picture of the truth. You are basing your opinion on ironman with no knowledge of how it truly functions.
Sure you lose the ability to reload your game in 5 seconds. That does not stop you at all from reloading your game at all. Sure if you screw up and no nothing about how ironman works, you cannot reload, but you can just restart. In your example ironman and eating are not interchangeable as their implications are solely based upon your assumptions about what it would take to eat (nothing could allow you to eat) and the so called anti-cheating mechanism in place in ironman (that they can actually stop you without doing illegal things).
It is only your opinion that playing ironman with the assumed constraints of not reloading are A) true B) that they matter. Surely, if you can get yourself to believe that this is true, you can also get yourself to believe that non-ironman can have the same effect.
In both cases, you changing your opinion about what non-ironman/ironman can represent results in the same thing, the perception that your immediate decisions in game have irreversible consequences.
Personally, I think they should just leave ironman alone in regards to mods, but my perception of ironman is different than yours.