I'm wondering about something which seems quite odd to me. It seems the one who starts a war completely dictates the terms of the war, and the terms of victory... Say I'm playing as the King of Norway and I have a claim on the county of Dal (Sweden). Then the King of Sweden declares war on me, (on behalf of one of his vassals which has a claim on one of my counties). Even if I occupy every single Swedish county and holding, and kill every last one of his troops, I can't press my claim in any way, since HE started the war. Shouldn't it be possible in some way to add my claim to the demands when I win? Now I basically have to offer him peace, then stand down all my troops, and then declare war AGAIN on my terms... Kinda unrealistic, eh?