Does this make more sense?
No. All I'm getting is "it's alright to mod, so long as you don't talk about modding, except when someone randomly decides you can talk about modding, but only in that bubble, and only until that person changes their mind".
I respect you trying to be nuanced. That's not what you're doing. You're being inconsistent, and confusing as hell.
Walking the modding tightrope ain't new. Nor is having TPTD be somewhat, or not at all, supportive of it.
But please just make up your mind about how as an organization you're going to handle it, and be consistent about it. Having to re-evaluate what to put where, and what to discuss where, every thirty seconds is incredibly annoying.
I'm not disagreeing that rules or discussion limitations are necessary. Just be consistent.