Is there a way to decide who's going to lead my levies. While I don't mind my character leading the armies when I raise them it really bugs me when my liege raises my levies and my character leads the army. In my last started game I was playing Metz, the count is in his 60s. The Emperor always raises my levies to fight his wars against the pagans and my elderly Count goes off to war. At his age, I'd rather he stay home and let his marshal or even his heir go off to battle while the Count stays home and gets his affairs in order before he dies.
