Hey Kazadorable, thanks for your report. Multiplayer debugging is always a bit trickier to do than single player issues so I'm going to ask you to do a few things for me. Could you guys run the game in Debug Mode, found at the bottom of the Paradox Launcer, this will generate a log that will be saved in \Documents\Paradox Interactive\Age of Wonders Planetfall\Logs. If you and your friend can send me the log at logs@triumphstudios.com with the thread name as subject, we'll be able to have a closer look at what might be going on.