Yes, sieges step progressing during battles.
As long as you have a claim on their title(s), the top option in the Peace talks should be "Be My Vassal". Then you should always give up the claims on their titles (except for the odd very rich county you have your eye on), and force them to give up claims on you (force them to recognize you as rightful owner).
Just to be sure, you do have the latest Beta Patch? I know it says 2.1 Beta Patch, but it never hurts to double-check. Some games come with a prior Beta Patch installed. See the stickies for the patch threads.
Edit: Oh, and we're weird, we love hearing interesting tales of other player's games. And it's been fun sitting on this side of the computer screen, listening to your way of talking and flavoring the game.![]()
In reverse:
* DLed everything from GG. Orig CK, then DV, then the patch from this site. I should be OK, right? I did do s. t. a tad unusual, but...ask and I'll explain. It's probably moot, anyway. Game seems to run OK and IAW the info I read here.
* Missed the 'be mine' thing, I guess. Anyhow, are you recommending I drop claims to get this? You seem to imply the AI likes a quid pro quo (which isn't surprising).
BTW, I write for a living, so thanks for the compliment.