[2.3] Not able to break up with lovers?

[Asphyxion]

I don't seem to be able to break up with my lovers. I married one of them, who is also my sister and now I would like to dedicate all my love to her and drop the rest. I pressed it several times but nothing seems to be happening. I did wait for more than a year now, not sure if there's a MTTH involved?

 

[CabalTheFriendlyAI]

Can confirm, break up interaction does not seem to work properly

 

[CabalTheFriendlyAI]

I have managed to fix it by replacing the event call in "way_of_life_decisions.txt" under the break up targeted decision with "remove_lover = FROM" under effect. I believe this may have something to do with how the AI is handling the event in question. (I mean seriously, one of the event options had an AI modifier of 1000?)

I've included this fix with GutenMod until paradox patches the problem.

Here's the link to the mod: http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=357282111

Edit: Disregard, apparently it's still borked, maybe a bug with the targeted decision system?

 

[Katsue]

You missed a golden opportunity to title the thread "Breaking up is hard to do". Anyway, I have also experienced this.

 

[PeterSkager]

Bumped the issue, so let's hope the programmers or scripters deal with it as soon as possible

 

[Asphyxion]

Bumped the issue, so let's hope the programmers or scripters deal with it as soon as possible

Good to hear.

 

[CabalTheFriendlyAI]

Bumped the issue, so let's hope the programmers or scripters deal with it as soon as possible

Fantastic, hope a hotfix get's released soon

 

[Glaciar]

I'm also getting this. You can tell it's borked without even pressing the 'do it' button, as the text in the box says "[your lover] will break up with [your lover]", rather than the first being your character's name.

Also, I can't seduce my daughters For a DLC sold on "seduce your relatives" I find this highly disturbing.

 

[Planescaped]

I got the event where I could elevate a maid to a noble lady with great stats, so like any good CK2 player, I murdered my wife to marry the lass with towering... intellect. The plot succeeded against my wife, and I married my lover on the same pause. I believe this is what caused the glitch, as I noticed it occurring shortly thereafter. I also did not receive the royal_aid_duty event, but I don't know if that's part of the bug or if it was changed so that only your first marriage gives that event.

DLC: All but some of the unit packs and 1 or 2 song packs.

Mods: Ruler designer and event/console manipulation to create a starting god character . As well as a few benign personal tweaks to the defines.lua.


As you can see, it's trying to make the character break up with themselves. I am pretty sure that I was able to break up with my lover earlier in the playthrough, but I may be confusing it with the too many lovers event that makes you choose. Breaking up through this event works fine. Exiting and reentering the game, as well as killing my character to play as someone else, did not remedy it. And the problem persists in subsequent new games.

Also, as to previous post, I am betting the same restrictions that applied to the old lovers events applies to seduction. Hence why we can't seduce close family members. There's probably the "is not close relative" parameter. Just nieces and nephews aunts and cousins I'm afraid.

... XD


A related issue that may not necessarily be a bug, is that AI goes crazy with seduction. My wife was well over 300+(capped at 100 of course) approval of me thanks to attraction modifiers, and did not have the lustful or hedonist trait, but she still cheated on me with every tom dick and harry on the planet. And every AI ruler tried to bone her because of her high stats and good traits. I'm not saying that she should not cheat on me, but I do think the AI of my wife should be a little bit more inclined to refuse with such high approval and non-lascivious traits. But she did have the deceitful trait, so maybe it was just RNG woes.

 

[LordDamien]

yep I got this issue as well.The only time i could break up with a lover is when you are stressed and you have to break off some. Other than that i could not break up with them

 

[Planescaped]

If you don't mind using the console, manipulation of event WoL.1150 allows you to break up with lovers.

 

[VorpalNeko]

I also have this bug. 'Konstantinos and Basileus Konstantinos will break off their love affair' -- lolwut?

The weird thing is that it works for the other character, but not for me (if I console 'play [charid]', the decision targets my original player character correctly).

 

[carniv]

Yes I've experienced this few times. My character received lovers automatically and the only way to break up with them was to get them killed.

 

[UMACI]

This issue has been around for two weeks, since the dlc has been released. They should've released a hotfix by now. It's a game(dlc) breaking bug since this is one of this dlc's main features and dlc is advertised with this.

 

[VorpalNeko]

The problem is that PDS is closed until next week. Releasing a major patch and then immediately going on vacation was pretty douchy thing thing to do, and is the nowhere near the most troublesome game-breaking bug in the latest patch.

I'd have honestly preferring for WoL to be delayed until after the holidays. You're welcome to take vacations, pdox, just don't ruin ours, plox.

 

[sinsemillas]

I can confirm that the same issue is happening to me

 

[AnaxXiphos]

The issue seems to be that the event sent to your lover has the wrong scopes: It uses FROM when it should be FROMFROM. I just tested a replacement event with the scope change and everything works as it should, in case anyone is looking to fix it for themselves before the coming bugfix patch.

 

[pzyber]

I can confirm it too and it had me killed in a multiplayer game.
My Character was sleeping with my liege's (human player) wife and he threatened to kill me if I didn't break up with her.
I told him it was bugged but he didn't believe me...