Well, since you feel YOUR unnecessarily hostile responses warrant some fired back, at you, I will.
You were the first person to respond to this thread, and the first with a "jerky attitude." Like Felix said, he probably expects the product to work as designed (and by Paradox's own description..) Face it, the game's been out what - 4 years? I can understand it not working correctly for a few months, but at this point - 2 expansions and how many patches later, it's clear PI has no intention of fixing a day 1 selling point - multiplayer. (Pretty sure that's 'false advertising' so he has every right to be angry, like the rest of us customers, ..meanwhile, in Sweden..)
Hey dude, i was following his attitude man, it's nothing wrong to be a jerk, but it's wrong to expect others being always tolerant to you if you act like one. As I said (or haven't, whatever), if he wrote it simple and clear: Paradox, i want you to fix my sync issues, because to me it's unacceptable that MP hasn't worked for me so far, I would understand his shit and even try to help him a bit.
He carried no hostility. Possibly frustration (the same frustration 3 of us were sharing last night, because we couldn't get 5 minutes into a game without sync errors.) Don't tell me it's "upload speed of the client", because A. the person in question has a 1mb/s upload speed and B. we were playing on a whopping lvl 2 speed. I'm certain a game designed back in the 00's isn't going to need more than that. You were the only person getting hostile. Perhaps you should channel that hostility into something useful, and help us convince Paradox that what's wrong needs being made right, then we can go forward. I mean, at this point, I have no desire or need for HoD, since it carries the same problems AHD does. There's three HoD sales just from our group gone down the drain, and won't help V3 come out any faster or with fewer gamebreaking bugs like this one. People wanting V3 (like myself, if MP wasn't a problem) should wish and pray for a fix, since more sales of the expansions = more money towards V3.
He carried no hostility? Dude, can't you read? Read at least what he replied to my post. As I said, he didn't bother explaining his situation more, so how the fuck can we help him. I gave him a general advice, even though he acted like a total bummer, because that advice usually works, because I actually want to help that dude.
Am I the only one that actually tries to help the OP? It's hard, if all info you give is some random insults at forum members and paradox. I'm not saying that I disapprove of his complaints here. All I want is him to express his concern in a way, that we can help him. I'm not so sure, that I would be able to give him the correct advice, to minimise his issues with multiplayer, but I sure would like to try, and I hope others would too.
As i said, I have also encountered many out-of-sync problems in Victoria, and on games like Age of empires, civilization (4 and 5) and other strategy games, (I won't lie, most likely though in paradox games),so i'm more than aware of this problem.
In the end, yes, it is totally fine to be upset with any issues you have, i wholeheartedly support that freedom, but present them in a civilised manner, and additionally, if you want others to try and solve his problem here on these forums, it might be a good idea, to provide various info you can get, of your situation. This is ofcourse, if you want to actually fix your problem yourself, rather than just moan to the devs about it.
All I can help is from my MP experience. But it's hard to be calm, when somebody finds it in a correct manner, to insult somebody with "well you must've played MP for 15 minutes, because i will not listen to your side of the story, because I will not believe it."