I haven't played CK2 in quite a while - I'm in my first game since the republic dlc came out, playing as Wessex. I'm having a hard time figuring out how or if it's possible anymore to have any influence over the stats of your heirs. My wife has great stats and is a genius. She also has all good traits. I've made her the tutor for my children but despite her great stats (and her being their mother), all my kids have crappy stats. Does the tutor not matter as much anymore? Also, the mother's stats aren't that important?