I'd like to know as well. Never seen a button, and right now I'm getting de jure wars declares on me by the kingdom of Lotharinga. Please help! I'm losing a buckload of money on mercs for defending me each time. And I basically just want to remain duke. I don't care about owning the lands. I can just give it to the king, but it's unsure if I'd actually remain that way, even though he likes me more than his dukes (yet can't stop attacking me).
Originally Posted by lastworkivy