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How the hell do you guys manage elective, haha I read on here that it was easy. But its impossibly hard lol. I started a new game as William the Conqueror. After a few years of manovering my vassals, I have managed to do the following:
Myself as King: Hold Duchy of Norfolk, Duchy of Middlex (?, the one that has the three counties around london ish lol), Duchy of Oxford, Duchy of Dorset (?, the one with the three counties, Dorset, Somerset and the other one). The King owns all the counties also which number 10. My demesne limit is 9 so its not too much over.
Duke of Normandy: My son Robert, holds whole of Duchy
Duke of Kent: Holds whole Duchy
Duke of Gousters (?): Holds whole of Duchy
Duke of Cornwall: Holds whole of Duchy
Duke of Leicaster (?): Holds whole of Duchy
Duke of Hereford (?): Holds whole of Duchy
Duke of York: Holds whole of Duchy
Duke of Northumberland: Holds whole of Duchy
So its basically myself with 8 vassals all in nice clean Duchies. This is working great thus far, they all love me (the lowest opinion is 92), they have no tax etc since I rely on raping the hell out of the cities and churches (I don't really care if the lowly lords like me or not lol).
But I changed to elective, and I chose my second son (William is it?) as he had a far cry better stats than Robert (Robert was so terrible it would be unbearable). Initally most of the Dukes supported my decision, but now most of them are nominating themselves or backing randoms like the Duke of Cornwall. I don't know how to sway their votes, like I said they all love me, I can't really get their opinion any higher????
So far I have had to resort to killing on the dukes who are voted the "Heir" I've killed two so far, and my choice is back to number one, but why do they keep randomly changing? Luckily all my assassinations have worked awesomely (high intrigue skill perhaps) so I haven't been punished for it yet, but no doubt one will fail.
So my question is, how do you guys who promote elective as the best system maintain your choice of Heir?