How long does the usurped title penalty to relations last?
I don't think that expires. I can't recall it ever having done so at least. This as long as you're talking about the -80 malus the title-holder gets, not the -20 malus everyone else gets.
If you go click on your son's portrait, so his picture is the biggest one on the screen, you should see a "rings" button to the lower right-hand corner of the portrait. Click on that, and you should see a list of every unmarried woman in Europe. Click on whichever one suits, and arrange the marriage. Good luck!
Thank you for your reply. I'm now facing the same problem with my new heir; after my firstborn son died of an illness at age 22, I can't seem to betroth my new heir. The weird thing is, I can see the rings button you mentioned on the character screen of my other children, but it's just not there when I'm looking at my heir! I took a screenshot to illustrate the situation. I tried bringing my heir closer to me as a member of my council before he died, but to no avail. Is this a bug?
I can confirm this. If you take somebody's title from them (revoked or usurped) they will be bothered until they die. Best to make sure they are in jail before or soon after they lose their title.
Thanks for the quick reply. Yeah I fought a war against this guy to get enough land to form the other Russian kingdom. I was hoping that once he comes of age or enough time passes I could just ask him to be my vassal like I did for some of the other Rurikovich nobles. Guess Ill try excommunication then invasion. Orthodox can do that right?
I don't think they can. Excommunication is a Catholic thing, or so I am led to believe. If you just usurped his title, why don't you press dejure claims on his land?
Is it ever worth destroying a king title? I'm King of Norway/England, both elective, and England isn't picking my heir... I'm okay with the prestige loss, but is the -50 relations worth it? Does the relations penalty ever expire?
Also, does the tyrant penalty ever expire?
Thank you for your reply. I'm now facing the same problem with my new heir; after my firstborn son died of an illness at age 22, I can't seem to betroth my new heir. The weird thing is, I can see the rings button you mentioned on the character screen of my other children, but it's just not there when I'm looking at my heir! I took a screenshot to illustrate the situation. I tried bringing my heir closer to me as a member of my council before he died, but to no avail. Is this a bug?
Is there anyway to force my king go abdicate in favor of my heir?
Sry if this has been asked before but how do you re-enable those popups that show that someone is at risk of revolting at the top of the screen?
Unfortunatly they havent returned.