I heard that one of the awesome things about this game is that you can gain land peacefully and only use your armies on rare cases. Thus giving the option to maybe pass the game with little to no wars
But how do you do this? There is no option in the diplomacy section to trade land. The inherit system doesn't seem to work across factions (I married this guy's daughter, and he has no biological heir. Yet for some reason, he named this random guy in his clan his heir?). There needs to be an option to claiming inheritances from other people.
I read in a review (don't remember which one) that the guy enjoyed passing the game without war because he didn't want to have to lay siege for years. So it is possible to do it without war? How?