Here's a question for you:
I wanted to play as Holland with the D&T mod. In D&T, you start out with Hainaut as a junior in a PU, instead of the other way around. Now, the most important thing about Holland is that you have to keep Burgundy from eating you in the first century or so. This is fairly easy normally, as they will generally not attack Holland because I keep the DoW stab hits high. However, it is quite inevitable that they DoW Hainaut sooner or later, and as my lesser in the union, I apparently must automatically come to their defence, becoming the leader in the war as well. Even when you disband the alliance between Hainaut and Holland, you are still forced to come to their aid they won't accept peace until you are annexed.. Also, France wont accept my alliance offer and 10 years is not enough for the great King Albert to die in order to disband the union.
Do you have any advice on how to stop the inevitable destruction by Burgundy, other than save-and-reload for either an early death?